(Mar. 29, 2013)This is a short story about a long five and a half years. My son Bill graduated from high school in 2003 and started working, saving, dating and other typical activities.
It was in the later part of 2007, at the age of 22, when we started noticing changes in Bill. He was becoming paranoid about his co-workers and was making narcissistic comments. Some of Bill’s mannerisms were becoming unusual and he was showing signs of withdrawal. We did not think much of this other then it seemed odd. We had no knowledge about mental illness.
In 2008, Bill was fired from his job. Shortly after that, at the age of 23, Bill had his first of many psychotic episodes. He called me from his home and said there were people in is house with guns trying to hunt him down and kill him. I responded as any father would by calling 911 and rapidly responding to his home. We found Bill delusional and hallucinating. Bill was left in my temporary custody to obtain him psychiatric help. Bill refused any help.
Over the next four and half years he became more delusional. Numerous times, we had to get him committed involuntarily for emergency evaluation by petitioning the local magistrate court to obtain a court order. Unfortunately, Georgia law only allows 72-hour retention unless the patient is determined by medical professionals to be in imminent danger to self or others.
Bill was hospitalized five times over the next four years for short durations and diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia. Sadly, Bill has anosognosia, blindness to his own illness. After each time he was stabilized, he would eventually quit taking his medication and crash into another psychotic episode. I cannot tell you how painful this has been for everyone and the impact to our family.
In 2012, Bill obtained a pistol. I was able to get the pistol from him and get him involuntarily committed again for emergency evaluation. He was treated at the West Central State Mental Health Hospital for 90 days. Then - with me working with the state hospital doctors, case managers and with a local case expeditor from the state - we were able to present Bill’s medical history in a local court and obtain a court order for a mandatory outpatient program.
This program, although not specifically called “assisted outpatient treatment” or AOT, provides Bill medication management, peer counseling and supervised visits at his apartment. Recently, Bill completed a Georgia Department of Labor vocational rehabilitation training program and received a certificate of completion. The department is now looking for some part-time employment for Bill.
There is hope now. Bill has been stable and improving for almost a year now. We hope that his stability and progress continues. None of this would have been possible without the current laws in Georgia that allowed me to get Bill treated.
In closing, I am a pastor. When this mental illness hit my son, I was angry, upset, confused, in denial, felt guilty, isolated and was scared. I kept asking God “why me, why Bill?” Faith in God helped me stay focused during very difficult times and get my son the help he needed, thanks to current Georgia laws on treatment of the mentally ill.
Lastly, from all this, I have developed a new ministry called “There is Hope” for families of people with mental illness. You can read about this new ministry at our website.
It is true that God works all things for His good.
GARY TABER
Pastor
There is Hope Ministries
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